自信. Confidence.

10:34 PM Saturday, May 11, 2019 adrian oh 3 Comments


朋友说,我看你在台上分享,很有自信,与N年前的宅男pattern差太远了。

我想一想,他说得不错。我不懂我到底有没有自信,但我已不再怯场,我可在千人场合大炮自如。

这份”自信”何来?我再想一想...

1)只分享你懂,下过功夫的东西。
2)只讲你执忱的东西。
3)一再,而再,三再的讲。
4)不怕讲错,错了就改。
5)  一山还有一山高,要抱着三人行,必有我师的学习态度。


再加上岁月与经验 (还有体重)的积累,使我更沉稳, 看来很”自信”,大概如此吧。

人生一定会起起落落, 但千万不可失去对自己的信心, 因为信心,是下次升空的燃料


Public speaking - from stage fright to a sense of “calmness”, it took me more than a decade. 

I did it in front of a few people, i also did it in front of thousands of spectators. 

My hands used to be shaking... But the Now I, fear no more.  

How do I get here? I pondered, these might be the keys

1) Only talk about stuffs you really know, you spent time perfecting on.
2) Only share stuffs you are passionate you believe in.
3) Keep practising (Knowing vs doing, are 2 very different things)
4) Be fearless about mistakes or judgement, always prepare to stand corrected, and learn from it.
5) Be humble, no matter how much you think you know, there are always smarter people who knows more than you.

Of course, to do fairly well, content preparation is the homework we cannot skip. It Is pure hard work.



Life will constantly be filled with ups and downs, but you shall never lose faith, and never ever stop believing in yourself, for it will shape your identity, and also serve as the fuel on your next rocket flights to mars.

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